Wednesday, April 8, 2009

What a Girl really wants?--Part 2

As per the old saying – The way to a Man’s heart is through his stomach – I think The way to a woman’s heart is being both deaf and dumb. . **Giggles** I’m Just kidding. .

Now Guys You don’t have to rejoice over this comment I made. . Humour has its own place in a person’s life. . So I thought I’ll start my second article with a tinge of laugh and on good note. .


Hmm. . last to last year. . I was busy reading one book. . John Gray's "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus". . You know I even read in between classes :P it is interesting. .! You people should try out reading it :D I Appreciate the author of detailing he done in the topics he wrote about in it. .
In that the author clearly says we girls are from Venus. .The planet of love. . It was something like Once it came like the Men in Mars was feeling lonely. . as they were lacking or missing something precious in their life. . So what they did was they invented a telescope and started doing their research. . So it was this time they found a different form of their species in another planet named Venus. . They found them really beautiful and was spellbound **Giggles** So the next moment they made a spaceship and headed towards Venus to meet the love of their lives :P and they lived happily ever after. . Later part I don’t remember. . So don’t ask me in the comments. . :D

The very own first thing a girl wants from her guy before love is to be Understanding. . Understanding in the sense. . At times the girl won't have words to explain what she is going through. . So just tell you understand. . Its Not gonna harm you in anyway. . She won't ask for an explanation too. . :)

Next one is Trust! Give trust and take trust. . Remember The Girl who loves you truly won't ever look at any other guy. . Mark this point. .

Yeah At times she will try making you jealous by telling how she love this celebrity :P That's only done to hear one line from you - " You are Mine" Nothing else :P Seriously. . You are no more than a Prince Charming in front of her eyes. . So stop fuming when she tells She loves Tom Cruise or Edward cullen A.k.a Robert Pattinson or Hritik Roshan. . And Say I don't care. . And see how she fumes over that one comment. . **Giggles**

Next thing Don’t ever try to be over - domineering with your girl. . They have their own smartness to know what is right and wrong. . Dominate her at times. . She will take it in good sense. . But too much of dominating means she is gonna find ways to get away from you. .

Don’t ever be over – smart. . Don’t keep on repeating – You are the best and not like rest – I’m awesome and stuffs. . Because that’s gonna make her feel like you are trying to put up some fake image in front of her. . Everyone are imperfect. . So do you :)

Love her Guys – She is your girl. . Text her random I Love you. . Miss you. . It makes her feel happy. . If you can’t call her. . just tell her the reason and you can’t call her. . She will understand you. . If she doesn’t, then that means she hasn’t understood you anyways. . Show her your love. . If you try to put any indifference towards her. . She will go in search of love and at the end of the day. . You will get hurt And mind it after that there is no point blaming your girl about how she left you and went :)

But but but . .

Showing love doesn’t mean you have to love her like strangling her. . Love sweetly, gently and tenderly :)

Now I’m gonna make the biggest request ever. . Guys Be a Good Listener. . I know I know Girls Crib, nag and Grumble a lot. . But that is nothing just making her out of the tension or problem she is going through. . Mind it. . she is not taking any tension on you. . The girl who loves you truly will never take any tension on you. . Actually speaking she will make sure not to make you tensed or upset by telling out her problems to you. . But if she wants to tell just open your ears and heart to it. . Just listen and console her. . Give her your shoulder so that she can cry and make her feel light hearted. . Wipe off her tears and say “I’m there with you no matter what happens” That increases the devotion the girl has for her guy. . I guess this is not gonna harm you right? Giving her the care she deserves will only make her love you more because she knows you will be there for her no matter what. .

Be Punctual – Give her Cute small gifts like flowers and chocolates. . I know Girls expect more than this. . But the girl who loves you truly won’t expect anything very big. . For her a chocolate given with a smile on your face will make her feel in cloud 9. . So don’t get upset if your get is a small thing because for her the thing doesn’t matter but what matters is you have given it :)

Well all I have to say is what I wrote above are just general points. . Nothing is specific. . Only thing to remember is Perceptions differ. . I wrote what I felt. . You can help me by adding more points. .

*K*

What a Girl really wants?--Part 1--Introduction

Well here i come up with a different article. .N ya my very own first article. .this is actually a sheer attempt so plz do comment n criticize if u find anything wrong in ma article. . :)
well guyz whtever i write in this blog wil be jus general topics. .dont get into specifications. .
Hope ul enjoy My writing :)

Well yesterday night i was just lying down and thinking wht is tht a girl really wants?
Is it love?or family?toys?hmm. .well if u start counting it goes endless. .

well for now. .Ill discuss one aspect. .That is "Love"

There are whole lot of girls who doesnt believe in love. .sometimes it can be either said like they dont want to fall in love. .
mite b cos of the surrounding in which they grew up . .there are lot of factors tht influence such a decision in girls. .

But there are still few girls who just enjoy being in such feelings. .which according to them Love is like a dream or fantasy. .that's why most of the girls who pass through their teenage starts loving all mushy mushy love stories. .reads novels. .especially mills and boon. .n ya sometimes they do even love all fairy tales. .where they show a prince charming coming in his white horse. .n takes away the princess as his bride. .well ya even i believe in that. . :P

Well this is just the starting stage for them. .Then comes school crushes. .proposals. .Love. .first kiss. .thn
that goes on till either one gets bored of the other. . :P Yups. .Most of the cases it does happen. .till they are together this goes on. .But after that they just broke up due to some lame reason. .They say school crushes and love doesnt work. .well i do deny that fact. .in my case. .We did love each other even though we were far. .Yups. .But for now lets not get into that. .coz it didnt work out seriously. . :)

Now where was i?
OH ya. .Love during teenage. .
YA that age is mainly known for such things. .

If the girl shows interest for any boy. .or sometimes if they girl go n dashes the guy. .thn that girl is being teased with that one boy. .Thn she blushes. .gets all excited when he walks past her. .thats how she starts getting this strange feeling which she quotes as "love". .n dances to all romantic tunes. .smiles when she is alone. .always thinks about him n stuff. .well this is jus a typical situation im teling. .

Well thats how it goes until she proposes him and stays happy or he gets another girl and she becomes sad. .Well this is just natural right. .

My WOrks! :)