Wednesday, April 8, 2009

What a Girl really wants?--Part 1--Introduction

Well here i come up with a different article. .N ya my very own first article. .this is actually a sheer attempt so plz do comment n criticize if u find anything wrong in ma article. . :)
well guyz whtever i write in this blog wil be jus general topics. .dont get into specifications. .
Hope ul enjoy My writing :)

Well yesterday night i was just lying down and thinking wht is tht a girl really wants?
Is it love?or family?toys?hmm. .well if u start counting it goes endless. .

well for now. .Ill discuss one aspect. .That is "Love"

There are whole lot of girls who doesnt believe in love. .sometimes it can be either said like they dont want to fall in love. .
mite b cos of the surrounding in which they grew up . .there are lot of factors tht influence such a decision in girls. .

But there are still few girls who just enjoy being in such feelings. .which according to them Love is like a dream or fantasy. .that's why most of the girls who pass through their teenage starts loving all mushy mushy love stories. .reads novels. .especially mills and boon. .n ya sometimes they do even love all fairy tales. .where they show a prince charming coming in his white horse. .n takes away the princess as his bride. .well ya even i believe in that. . :P

Well this is just the starting stage for them. .Then comes school crushes. .proposals. .Love. .first kiss. .thn
that goes on till either one gets bored of the other. . :P Yups. .Most of the cases it does happen. .till they are together this goes on. .But after that they just broke up due to some lame reason. .They say school crushes and love doesnt work. .well i do deny that fact. .in my case. .We did love each other even though we were far. .Yups. .But for now lets not get into that. .coz it didnt work out seriously. . :)

Now where was i?
OH ya. .Love during teenage. .
YA that age is mainly known for such things. .

If the girl shows interest for any boy. .or sometimes if they girl go n dashes the guy. .thn that girl is being teased with that one boy. .Thn she blushes. .gets all excited when he walks past her. .thats how she starts getting this strange feeling which she quotes as "love". .n dances to all romantic tunes. .smiles when she is alone. .always thinks about him n stuff. .well this is jus a typical situation im teling. .

Well thats how it goes until she proposes him and stays happy or he gets another girl and she becomes sad. .Well this is just natural right. .

18 comments:

Karthika said...

hey itz very nyc... simple yet nyc... very well written dear...
gr8 start off... hope u rock thiz new world.. al the best :)

pallavi said...

guuuuuuuuuuuudddddddddddddddd.............write my story also

Unknown said...

really done wel...but if u go 2 write gals emotions...i think its quite endless :D....each gal has her own wierd & wild stories and emotions....
& by the way whose story is dis :O

Ayu said...

Anu thtz y i told this is jus a general topic. .No specifications. .i knw if i get into specific gal's life. .it would turn out to be endless. .so jus generalising. .thts all :)

xavier infant said...

1. Are u trying to say love exists or it doesnt cos m a lil confused :)

2. I believe love exists only in movies

3. Me being a guy i have to take up the guys side too :) See it also is so true that when gals search for the prince charmin you get to ignore the man who led u to ur prince. It so happens tat when he keeps riding the horse, the horse becomes tired and so does he ;) now he gets boring and stinks. Happens to our dream gals too. Thats why i say love is dreamy only in the 3.5 hour movie and in reality is sour and bitter.

4. HAPPY BREAKUP CHILD !!!!... theres more to life than love... and i mean the 'genuine love'... see you wouldnt have ended up writing this blog if u hadnt lost your love :)

5.Palli want me to write ur story? il mess it up big time... worth takin a risk ???

xavier infant said...

but the writing is very nice piece of work.... well atleast m gettin to know gal's side of the stories :)

Unknown said...

love exists obviously...there r many couples who r livin happily...happily means compromising & livin thru...jus cos v have'nt seen til nw doesnt mean love doeant exist and al....
& brk ups cant b totally blamed on guys....dere r equal no. of gals who spoil it too

Ayu said...

@Infant. .

I clearly agree Ur point. .BUt lemme make it clear. .I wasnt blamin the boy or the gal. .i wasnt projecting whether love exist or not. .i was teling about tht period of life the gal goes thru. .the love is experience is not genuine. .thtz wht i meant :) well im happy u criticized. .But u did for the wrong perception u made from ma article. .itz okies. .It happens :)

Ayu said...

@infant. .

U are so vetti to write such a big comment :O shocked :D well ill tel ya. .this is not based on ma story or any other gal story. .i guess u didn read ma article properly. .if u would hav. .u mit hav read the part wher i wrote. .these are general topics. .not specific ones :) i hope u are clear now. .! :)

pallavi said...

@infant.............big time saddist..........always has to comment on something or the other.........if u r vetti means cum to coll...........tis all bout ppls perceptions.........wht gals feel she tried to express in her own way............we dont want to know wht guys feel............coz guys hav excuses for everythin..............if u want to tell wht guys feel..............u write ur blog........ok.............and wht do u want to tell bout my relationship..............lemme also know how u want to mess it..............

xavier infant said...

omg!!! ppl dont kill me... feminists ;)hey m NOT vetti k... i was reading a nice novel all day and i think i learnt more than wat palli learnt in class today... i think she learnt to sleep with her eyes open :)by the way... ayu... i think i can guess from ur writing, bits and pieces are straight from ya life :) nyways if i was wrong by any chance then i apologize..and palli m not a saddist... m just being rational with everythin... happy good friday children... repent and you shall be saved ;)

xavier infant said...

anu.... isnt love all about living in a dreamland with everythin jus the way we imagine it? so wen love is rigid, 'life' is a compromise... don ever compromise on ya love... its not worth the compromise!!!!

hey kuchi.. ur sis is so damn scared to let me write her story... wat say il write urs? i swear il give it the best shot...how much can u pay me... il make u look like a very innocent beeetiful princess ;)

pallavi said...

oye infant.......she was makin an attempt and u commented...............i felt bad for tht...........she might not b tht gud in expressing........but again i say tis an attempt........encourage her......

xavier infant said...

hey pal.... i neva told her it wasnt good... all the while m jus tryin to say wat she wrote clashes with my ideologies !!!! i m encouragin her k... in fact i was tellin jolly to read it .. but its k... i don mind doin it again... WAY TO GO AYU... :) come on ayu... mail me ur next blog wen ya done with it... and don let palli comment... then she'll blame me :(

Unknown said...

Very well done :) Keep it up.. :)
Best ov luck !!

pallavi said...

hey infant.............wht yaar.....???i wasnt blaming and all......read ur first comment.....u'll know y i said like tht........i know guys will never accept the fact.......it not oly happned to us but many gals hav felt the same..........

xavier infant said...

hey kuchi... i thought ayu is someone else ;) so again to repeat wat i said bef... ur good piece of writing ... seems to be ya happy n sad parts in love life ;) a gal's side of a shatterin love ... seems like tat kuchi :) but wateva my assumption is... i stick to my words... love is not everythin in life.. its just a part... a part tat grows in us and mutually makes us grow... and kuchi ur my guruji... now i wanna make a blog too... il make mine soon k... u better comment on em :)

Loverboy said...

Hey Ayu tht was Gr8. & ya Love is not a Dreamland. Its the Feeling tht grows within us. .If u say Love is Dream & all then every relation turns out to be the same. bcz. LOVE exists Everywhere. It has no LIMITS.
& there is no rules tht LOVE should be between a GUY & GIRl.. then it should turn into Marriage & all..

I hope i've not mistaken ur point.

But the part in which u described abt girl. I cant argue on tht...

But overall It is NICE>..