Wednesday, April 8, 2009

What a Girl really wants?--Part 2

As per the old saying – The way to a Man’s heart is through his stomach – I think The way to a woman’s heart is being both deaf and dumb. . **Giggles** I’m Just kidding. .

Now Guys You don’t have to rejoice over this comment I made. . Humour has its own place in a person’s life. . So I thought I’ll start my second article with a tinge of laugh and on good note. .


Hmm. . last to last year. . I was busy reading one book. . John Gray's "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus". . You know I even read in between classes :P it is interesting. .! You people should try out reading it :D I Appreciate the author of detailing he done in the topics he wrote about in it. .
In that the author clearly says we girls are from Venus. .The planet of love. . It was something like Once it came like the Men in Mars was feeling lonely. . as they were lacking or missing something precious in their life. . So what they did was they invented a telescope and started doing their research. . So it was this time they found a different form of their species in another planet named Venus. . They found them really beautiful and was spellbound **Giggles** So the next moment they made a spaceship and headed towards Venus to meet the love of their lives :P and they lived happily ever after. . Later part I don’t remember. . So don’t ask me in the comments. . :D

The very own first thing a girl wants from her guy before love is to be Understanding. . Understanding in the sense. . At times the girl won't have words to explain what she is going through. . So just tell you understand. . Its Not gonna harm you in anyway. . She won't ask for an explanation too. . :)

Next one is Trust! Give trust and take trust. . Remember The Girl who loves you truly won't ever look at any other guy. . Mark this point. .

Yeah At times she will try making you jealous by telling how she love this celebrity :P That's only done to hear one line from you - " You are Mine" Nothing else :P Seriously. . You are no more than a Prince Charming in front of her eyes. . So stop fuming when she tells She loves Tom Cruise or Edward cullen A.k.a Robert Pattinson or Hritik Roshan. . And Say I don't care. . And see how she fumes over that one comment. . **Giggles**

Next thing Don’t ever try to be over - domineering with your girl. . They have their own smartness to know what is right and wrong. . Dominate her at times. . She will take it in good sense. . But too much of dominating means she is gonna find ways to get away from you. .

Don’t ever be over – smart. . Don’t keep on repeating – You are the best and not like rest – I’m awesome and stuffs. . Because that’s gonna make her feel like you are trying to put up some fake image in front of her. . Everyone are imperfect. . So do you :)

Love her Guys – She is your girl. . Text her random I Love you. . Miss you. . It makes her feel happy. . If you can’t call her. . just tell her the reason and you can’t call her. . She will understand you. . If she doesn’t, then that means she hasn’t understood you anyways. . Show her your love. . If you try to put any indifference towards her. . She will go in search of love and at the end of the day. . You will get hurt And mind it after that there is no point blaming your girl about how she left you and went :)

But but but . .

Showing love doesn’t mean you have to love her like strangling her. . Love sweetly, gently and tenderly :)

Now I’m gonna make the biggest request ever. . Guys Be a Good Listener. . I know I know Girls Crib, nag and Grumble a lot. . But that is nothing just making her out of the tension or problem she is going through. . Mind it. . she is not taking any tension on you. . The girl who loves you truly will never take any tension on you. . Actually speaking she will make sure not to make you tensed or upset by telling out her problems to you. . But if she wants to tell just open your ears and heart to it. . Just listen and console her. . Give her your shoulder so that she can cry and make her feel light hearted. . Wipe off her tears and say “I’m there with you no matter what happens” That increases the devotion the girl has for her guy. . I guess this is not gonna harm you right? Giving her the care she deserves will only make her love you more because she knows you will be there for her no matter what. .

Be Punctual – Give her Cute small gifts like flowers and chocolates. . I know Girls expect more than this. . But the girl who loves you truly won’t expect anything very big. . For her a chocolate given with a smile on your face will make her feel in cloud 9. . So don’t get upset if your get is a small thing because for her the thing doesn’t matter but what matters is you have given it :)

Well all I have to say is what I wrote above are just general points. . Nothing is specific. . Only thing to remember is Perceptions differ. . I wrote what I felt. . You can help me by adding more points. .

*K*

7 comments:

Unknown said...

true karthi:):)very much true:)this is the only thing girls want.hope guys start realising this soon:p:p

Unknown said...

Usually girl wants the guy to be Understanding. .Understanding in the sense. .If she wants to tel something. .N she is not able to convey it. .Dont pester her by asking what it is. .Dont worry. .she will tell that issue later if she is fine. .


--------------> hmm ya if she doesnt want to tell then u should wait and wait wait and wait, that day will never come.
again boy ask her and again she says no yaar i cant tell u right now... boys says okie.
again something happen and boy ask she said please understand me i cant tell now,,

Now if same situation is happened with girl. then girl tell i m ur frd, gf.. blah blah blah.!! so in this point of time what girls think???

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Now Conclusion of this problem is. thoda ladki ko jhukna(bend) padega aur thoda ladke ko tabhi ek dosre se mil paayege aur ek hi insaan jhukta raha toh woh tot jayega.!!

Unknown said...

Guys A question for u. .Have you ever appreciated ur lady love even once?Or do u knw the meaning of APPRECIATION?

---- A Question for girls - why poet compare beauty of women with nature like moon, rose, etc

waanna to know examples. u must know it na..

Second Question - why mostly sad songs for men????

Ayu said...

@Kammy. .

M telin about exceptional cases. .I hav seen lot of examples in ma life. .
YUps. .mit be tht u wil appreciate. .but every guy are not like u. .! :)

Yaar thtz the difference in perceptions. .thtz all :)

Loverboy said...

I also agree with Kammy...aka Kamlesh. :) But as far karthi told tht for only Exceptional cases.. Hmnn ya. .it is also true...

But as far as the relationship is concerned Both has to Bend a little bit...

xavier infant said...

guys shod not be late?. lemme tel u somethin kuchi... if the guy is on time,it also infers the gal is late... if the gal is on time, means the guy is late!!!!!

why does the gal or the guy get blamed... why cant they jus be cool... after all when they love each others so much they shouldnt worry bout gettin tanned ;)cos the spirit of love is continual even if he/she becomes fat,tanned,borin or even if he is dead.

xavier infant said...

and the "u look good today" magic... doesnt always work out too ;)

the next words wil be "so on every other day m fat n ugly is it?"


;)

phew... how many complications in love !!!!